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Queer the Census

The 2020 Census is underway but only 58% of Arizona, 62% of Pima County and 60% of Tucson have filled out their 2020 Census. The Census determines Arizona’s representation in Congress and $675 billion in federal funds. It can be filled out online at my2020census.gov»Read full article

June 30, 2020

PRIDE IS A PROTEST

Pride is a protest. I read these words today for the first time and my inner-teenager woke up from a long sleep, eyes wide open. He grinned like a pink possum, and delivered a friendly slap-on-the-back to my 53-year-old self: “Told you so. Did you forget?” I had clearly forgotten. »Read article by Keith Ashley

Claire Ellington

Claire Ellington knew from an early age that the conventional middle-class world didn’t have everything quite right. Growing up a tomboy “from the get go” in 1950s-60s Charlotte, NC, “I recognized right away the world had a problem, but I didn’t have a problem.” Claire’s rebellion against conventional life put her on a fiercely independent path of discovery to root out and dismantle oppression in her own life and help others do the same…
»Read full profile by Ed Kimble

No sugar-coating Arizona’s COVID-19 surge

Arizona has moved up from the nation’s 12th lowest infection rate to the nation’s 12th highest in just one month, and Pima County hospitals are running out of ICU beds because of it. Almost 60% of the cases are occurring among persons under 44 years old, but the over 65 crowd accounts for 75% of the deaths in the state. We’ve learned a lot about COVID-19 in the six months since it first appeared in Wuhan, China. The virus is preventable. Just wear a face mask in public, and there’s some folks you probably should avoid.
»Read article by Ed Kimble

June 23, 2020

Tucson’s LGBTQ history of activism

Photo credit AZ Daily Star. Joyce Bolinger is a volunteer with Southern Arizona Senior Pride and a former volunteer with Wingspan, Tucson’s LGBTQ community center, which closed in 2014 after 25 years.

“Once we might have been closeted and somewhat invisible. But, as we are seen increasingly as the faces of neighbors, family, friends and co-workers, it is harder than ever to deny our rights.” »Read Joyce Bolinger’s article in the Arizona Daily Star

June 17, 2020

50 YEARS of TUCSON PRIDE

Joyce Bolinger observed the 50th anniversary of Pride gatherings by looking back over the last five decades of LGBTQI+ life in the Old Pueblo, and she found a LOT to celebrate.

Did you know that Tucson’s gay rights movement began with a murder outside a gay bar, and the outrage it sparked led to political organizing and one of the earliest anti-discrimination ordinances in the U.S.? Did you know that lesbian-feminists played a huge role in building the organizations that have allowed LGBTQI+ people to thrive with pride here? Did you know Tucson’s lesbian and gay chorus has been performing concerts for 32 years? Or that Senior Pride began 16 years ago?

»Learn your Tucson LGBTQI+ history with this informative timeline

Summer 2020

2020 Senior Pride Summer Reading List

What would summer be without some great books to wile away our vacation hours at the beach, by the pool, or just hiding out in our homes to beat the blazing desert heat? And while you’re at it, why not bone up on your LGBTQI+ history or get to know some of the brightest queer literary minds past and present, or maybe some who aren’t themselves part of our tribe but have keen insights into our stories? Senior Pride’s Book Club coordinator, Les Tannenbaum, a retired English professor who retired to Tucson from Ohio, suggests a baker’s dozen great finds for your book bag or e-reader.
»Les Tannenbaum’s 2020 Summer Reading List

June 15, 2020

Civil Rights Law Protects Gay and Transgender Workers, Supreme Court Rules

The Supreme Court ruled Monday that a landmark civil rights law protects gay and transgender workers from workplace discrimination, handing the movement for L.G.B.T. equality a stunning victory.

“An employer who fires an individual merely for being gay or transgender defies the law,” Justice Neil M. Gorsuch wrote for the majority in the 6-to-3 ruling.

Until Monday’s decision, it was legal in more than half the states to fire workers for being gay, bisexual or transgender. The vastly consequential decision extended workplace protections to millions of people across the nation, continuing a series of Supreme Court victories for gay rights even after President Trump transformed the court with two appointments.

»Read full article in the New York Times

May 27, 2020

Larry Kramer, Groundbreaking AIDS Activist and Playwright, Dies at 84

Larry Kramer — the New York City-based gay playwright and author whose involvement in the Gay Men’s Health Crisis and ACT UP changed the course of the AIDS epidemic — died May 27. He was 84. Photo shows Kramer at an AIDS conference in New York in 1987 (photo credit: Catherine McGann/Getty Images).

»Read article in the New York Times

»Read article in the Bay Area Reporter

»Read article in Variety

»Listen to Podcast in Making Gay History

May 27, 2020

In Memoriam: Larry Kramer

By Sarah Bahnson

The world lost a hero. Larry Kramer, co-founder of Gay Men’s Health Crisis and AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP), died at the age of 84. Most known for his provocative tactics as an activist and public health advocate, he changed the relationship between public health institutions and consumers… »Read full article by Sarah Bahnson

What Makes You Gay Proud? Seven Answers.

Bruce Hyland asked some of Tucson’s treasured queer elders what makes them proud of their LGBTQI+ experience. Among them were an actor, flag dancer, anthropologist, goat herder, stage manager, activist, musician, judge, Harvard dean, health nut, business owner, counselor, and literature professor. We are forever grateful for their contributions to gay rights and the wisdom they gained in the process, which we proudly share with you to Thrive with Pride 2020.

»Read the seven answers!

Celebrating Pride in Spite of the Pandemic

The COVID-19 pandemic almost stopped 50th anniversary Pride celebrations around the world. Then we got creative and adapted the technology we love to the Pride we live. Star-studded New York and Los Angeles Pride celebrations are broadcasting live on local ABC affiliates, San Francisco Pride will stream live on its website, and Global Pride 2020 is hosting a 24-hour online event with live events from 350 cities around the world. Get info and links to these and other virtual pride festivities and gay history exhibitions happening in June.

»Read full article by Ed Kimble

May 27, 2020

VICTORY! Same-Sex Spouses Nationwide Gain Equal Access to Social Security Survivor’s Benefits

Lambda Legal wins class action fight on behalf of surviving same-sex spouses denied equal access to survivor’s benefits due to unconstitutional marriage bans. “This is a tremendous victory for many surviving same-sex spouses nationwide who have been locked out of critical benefits because they were unlawfully barred from marriage for most of their relationships,” said Lambda Legal Counsel Peter Renn.”Many same-sex couples were in loving, long-term, and committed relationships for decades – and they shouldn’t be treated as strangers in death simply because they were unable to marry for most of that time…”

»Read article on the Lambda Legal site

Jo Schneider: Owner, La Cocina

by Joyce Bolinger

A longtime member and supporter of the LGBTQI+ community, Jo Schneider owns Tucson’s downtown La Cocina, known for its outdoor patio, eclectic cuisine, and live music. When Tucson Mayor Regina Romero closed restaurants March 17 to contain the spread of COVID-19, Jo began serving free food to out-of-work dishwashers, servers, entertainers, and others — “we don’t turn anyone away,” she says.

Since March 22, Jo has served about 80 free meals 3 times a week. She has donated free meals to TIHAN as well. Part of a non-profit Feeding Those who Feed Us, Jo is also a member of Too Soon Arizona, a group of small businesses who plan to delay re-opening for safety concerns.

Memorial Day Travel Plans? Know Before You Go (and don’t go to Show Low)

It’s almost hardwired into the American psyche to begin summer with a Memorial Day road trip to a beach, a lake, or someplace rustic to start the season with rest, relaxation, and mischief. Now that Arizona’s COVID-19 stay at home orders have been lifted, how can you resist the temptation to hit the road?

»Read full article that also contains more valuable COVID-related resources and info, by Ed Kimble

When will it be safe to go out again?

Ready or not, Arizona, the nation, and the world are starting to reopen after two months of pandemic shutdowns. So, when will it really be safe for LGBTQI+ older adults to venture out again? A University of Massachusetts biology professor offers some of the clearest information yet on how COVID-19 infections spread. Combine that with reliable infection rate data, and you can make some well-informed decisions for yourself (with additional helpful advice from The Atlantic and SAGE).

»Read article by Ed Kimble

Kevin Maxey: Retired Emergency Room Physician

By Bruce Hyland
Photo credit: Tomcat Enterprises Photography© James Scott P. Pignatella

photo of Kevin Maxey and Richard Wegner
Kevin Maxey & Richard Wegner

Kevin is holing up with his dearly beloved (Richard Wegner) and cooking food and sharing it with a couple other households. They are playing cards, games and working puzzles. He’s anxious, but very grateful to be with his husband through this. »Meet Kevin Maxey

May 12, 2020

Senior Pride to Host Weekly AA Meeting for LGBTQI+ Elders

Southern Arizona Senior Pride announces ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS: THE SENIOR LGBTQI+ MEETING.

Meetings will take place via Zoom, Mondays, 7-8pm. The first meeting will be on Monday, May 18.

This is an open meeting, available to all persons who are interested in the AA program of recovery. The format is Step Meeting (12×12), reading and discussing selections from the AA publication, Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions.

»how to join a meeting

Tom Buchanan: Retired non-profit organizational leader

by Bruce Hyland
Photo credit: Joyce Bolinger

Photo of Tom Buchanan

Tom sometimes feels impatient, uncertain, nervous, agitated, but always grateful that he’s safe with his husband in their home. He has a sense that life will be changing. One aspect, given his nonprofit expertise, is how the performing arts will change. How will they survive? How will they adapt? He’s pleased to see pollution levels come down dramatically, even with it only being having been a short time when ships, planes, polluting vehicles, etc. made changes that allowed this. »Meet Tom Buchanan

Brad Holland: Musician, Attorney, Tribal Elder

by Bruce Hyland
Photo credit: Daniel Snyder

Head and shoulders photo of Brad Holland

Brad is a life-long advocate for those who are less advantaged. He is a musician and lawyer retired from the Office of the Pima County Attorney. Today, Brad is pleased to act as attorney with Homicide Survivors. About the COVID-19 pandemic, he says, “We older LGBTQ+ have hard-won training to deal with this. We know how to survive a plague. .. Who else has been through this, but us?”
»Meet Brad Holland

Arizona’s Confused Reopening, and More Resources

Last week, Gov. Doug Ducey extended Arizona’s stay-at-home order until May 15, but this week, he has been moving faster than expected to reopen retail, restaurants, and hair salons. These moves come despite a continuing rise in new cases in Phoenix, though new Tucson cases are on the downswing. Meanwhile nursing home deaths prompt the governor to impose new reporting rules, Pima suicides continue at a high rate attributable to the COVID-19 crisis, and older Americans are exhibiting new, different symptoms that are easy to miss.

Today’s COVID-19 Update covers all this plus new resource roundups from some of the nation’s biggest and most diverse elder advocacy organizations.

»Read article by Ed Kimble

Lola Lai Jong: Poet

by Bruce Hyland
Photo credit: Joyce Bolinger

Lola Jong, speaking into a microphone at a podium

Lola is busy with projects and focusing on being happy. She goes out for walks, being mindful on those treks of the beauty around her. “Of course I’ve had bumps in the road and hit boulders in life. But I learned to deal with things. My goal is to be happy. When I hit a dip, I look inside myself to see what’s really going on. It’s very important for us to know ourselves…” »Meet Lola Lai Jong

Help with COVID-19 Economic Fallout

In the seven weeks since the World Health Organization (WH0) declared the COVID-19 outbreak a global pandemic on March 11, few things have been more impressive than the outpouring of caring resources to help us cope with its consequences. Since SoAZ Senior Pride published its first roundup of resources especially targeted to LGBTQ+ elders on March 26, many new resources have come online every day.

Today’s COVID-19 Update covers some of the newest local resources that have become available to help with the devastating economic impacts from business shutdowns designed to prevent the spread of this deadly new virus.

»Read article by Ed Kimble

April 27, 2020

LGBTQ, 55+ and living in Arizona? Share your COVID-19 experience with us.

The COVID-19 crisis in the United States has upset the lives of everyone, and may especially challenge those in Arizona who are LGBTQ and ages 55 years and older. We invite you to share your experiences through this brief online survey of 52 questions about COVID-19 knowledge, attitudes, protective behaviors, and how the March 30th governor’s order to stay home affects your mental and physical health. The survey study is conducted by Dr. Beth Meyerson of the Southwest Institute for Research on Women (SIROW) and the Institute for LGBTQ Studies at the University of Arizona. Survey results will be shared with organizations serving LGBTQ communities in Arizona.The survey requires about 20 minutes to complete. Your answers will be anonymous. »MORE

Extended Shelter-in-Place for Seniors Poses Health Dangers from Loneliness

Looking forward to getting out of the house again when COVID-19 stay-at-home orders are lifted? If you’re over 60, don’t get your hopes up just yet. The phased in reopening of workplaces and businesses touted by politicos includes a nasty little bombshell for seniors: we must continue “sheltering in place” for a minimum of 28 additional days! Same goes for anyone else vulnerable to COVID-19 complications due to specific medical conditions. Social isolation is the number one predictor of loneliness, and loneliness contributes to a litany of health problems, including a 45% increase in premature death.

»Read article by Ed Kimble

April 14, 2020

Connect Now!

Are you being very smart and staying clear of others to avoid COVID-19 — but self-isolation is wearing thin and you miss connection with others? Senior Pride is introducing a new service we’re calling Connect Now! to offer folks short-term support via phone. For more info, call us at 520-312-8923 or send a message.

April 10, 2020

One Wedding and… a Revolution Stream for Free

With great sadness, the GroundSpark team acknowledges the loss of the lesbian activist, Phyllis Lyon. In her 95 years, Phyllis lived a life of love and courage. As we mourn the loss of Phyllis, we also wish to highlight the incredible contributions she made so that we may all be inspired to live courageously, love deeply, and work together for a revolution. We are offering free streaming of One Wedding and…a Revolution (Debra Chasnoff and Kate Stilley, 2004, 19mins) in honor of Phyllis. Use the password RestInPower (note the capital letters!) to watch the film here.

»Read Groundspark’s full message

April 9, 2020

Lesbian Pioneer Phyllis Lyon Dies

Fearless lesbian activist icon Phyllis Lyon died peacefully at her home in San Francisco on April 9 of natural causes. She was 95. Few individuals contributed more to issues impacting LGBTQ, women’s, civil rights and the rights of elder Americans than Ms. Lyon and her partner of 58 years, Del Martin. Lyon and Martin were the first same-sex couple to marry in California on June 16, 2008. Weeks later, on August 27, 2008, Ms. Martin died in San Francisco, with Ms. Lyon at her side. Ms. Martin was 87.

»Read article in The Bay Area Reporter

Why you need to be on Facebook during the COVID-19 Crisis

Southern Arizona Senior Pride is trying to help home-bound seniors – which means ALL of us right now – find services we need by posting articles and links to Web resources of most importance to LGBTQ elders. But the COVID-19 situation is evolving so fast that the only reasonable chance you have of keeping up is on social media. If you aren’t already on Facebook, you need to sign up right now. Here’s why…

»Read article by Ed Kimble

April 2020

University of Utah Study Needs Participants

Researchers at the University of Utah want to gain insight into barriers to care for members of the LGBTQ+ cancer community. If you or a loved one has undergone cancer treatment, or you are or have been a caregiver for an LGBTQ+ cancer patient, we need you! »MORE

Resources for Diverse Elders

Southern Arizona’s LGBTQ seniors represent a vast range of ethnic, linguistic and national identities. During the COVID-19 crisis, many of us need resources in a first language other than English or relevant to our root ethnic identities. In this article, we’ll provide you with links to diverse elder resources.

»Read full article by Ed Kimble

Impact of COVID-19 on the LGBTQ Community: Info from HRC and Equality AZ

Federal social-distancing requirements extended to April 30th… $2 trillion stimulus package passed but individuals to wait three weeks for $1,200 checks… Tucson Mayor Regina Romero issues shelter-in place advisory until April 17th… Experts predict 200,000 Americans will die from COVID-19… Federal Reserve predicts unemployment rate will hit 32%…

These dire headlines say nothing about the impact of COVID-19 on the LGBTQ community. Late last week both the Human Rights Campaign and Equality Arizona hosted virtual town halls to look at the unique challenges this pandemic is bringing to our community and marshal resources we can turn to for help.

»Read full article by Ed Kimble

Current Resources for LGBTQ Seniors in Southern Arizona

The isolation that Senior Pride battles so diligently in normal times is suddenly required of everyone. During this crisis, Senior Pride will be publishing COVID-19 UPDATES here in our news feed to help our community navigate this period safely.

It has been two weeks since the World Health Organization declared COVID-19 a worldwide pandemic and a week since Tucson Mayor Regina Romero issued her emergency declaration shutting down all dine-in restaurants, bars, gyms and other gathering spots in the city. Many working older adults have been furloughed or lost their jobs as businesses close, some forever, due to the spread of a coronavirus that is most deadly to the most vulnerable among us. Meanwhile, medical facilities and other services we rely on are asking us to stay away.

»Learn where and how to access the services you need while COVID-19 contact restrictions are in place

March 19, 2020

Isolation and Coronavirus

We are reaching out to all of you with concern about isolation during this time of crisis. Self quarantine means isolating ourselves from friends, family and social gatherings. Senior Pride wants to offer support and suggestions to interrupt isolation. It is crucial that we take care of our mental health as well as our physical health. Those of us that live alone may need extra love and all of us will need to stay close to our support circles…

»Read Lavina’s encouraging and informative message

February 29, 2020

Senior Pride Executive Director Takes the Stage!

Our very own Lavina Tomer joined other unique voices sharing their personal narratives on the themes of Feminism, Intersectionality, Empowerment, Solidarity, Testimonio and Activism at the FIESTA Storytelling event earlier this year at Unscrewed Theater. It was hosted by WOSAC (The Women’s Studies Advocacy Council) to benefit the University of Arizona Department of Gender & Women’s Studies.
»Watch on YouTube

February 20, 2020

Arizona Legislature Attacks Transgender Student Athletes

The Arizona Legislature is attacking transgender student athletes. On Thursday, February 20, 2020, the House Health and Human Services Committee voted to advance an egregious anti-transgender bill, HB 2706, out of the AZ House Health & Human Services Committee. While we were incredibly disappointed this invasive, harmful bill was passed through committee, this is not the end and we can stop this bill in the House, but your Representatives need to hear from you! Rush a message to your Representatives and ask them to vote NO on HB 2706!

Tell Your Legislator – STOP HB 2706.
»Contact your legislator on the Human Rights Campaign website

Community Cares Reaches Out to Isolated LGBTQ Elders

Due to coronavirus precautions, Community Cares volunteers will not be visiting their recipients until it is safe to do so again. But we continue phoning and talking with recipients throughout the crisis.

Are you LGBTQ, 55+, homebound or isolated? Are you disabled of any age? Senior Pride’s Community Cares Program reaches out to people in our community by providing trained volunteers who will visit once a week to play cards, read aloud, write letters or call once a week for a phone visit. Volunteers can also provide information on LGBTQI services and resources. There is no charge for this service. Contact us at 520-351-2724 or email. Referrals are welcome and encouraged!

Be a Community Cares Volunteer!

For info about becoming a trained volunteer call 520-351-2724 or email

September 2019

Apartment Community for Seniors 62+ in the Heart of Tucson

The Marist on Cathedral Square, an apartment community for seniors 62+ years old located in the heart of Tucson, is now leasing. BRAND NEW • affordable living • up to 875 square feet • major utilities included • membership to Armory Senior Center • near trolley stop • High-Speed Internet
More info: 602-285-1800 or email

January 2020

FRAUD ALERT: Threatening phone calls impersonating Social Security

Be on the lookout for telephone impersonation schemes that exploit the Social Security Administration’s (SSA) reputation and authority. Fraudulent callers use threatening language and state that, due to improper or illegal activity with a citizen’s Social Security number or account, a citizen will be arrested or face other legal action or simply experience a suspension of retirement benefits, if the citizen fails to call a provided phone number to address the issue. This is a scam; citizens should not engage with these calls, not call the numbers and not provide any personal information.

»Learn more about this scam at socialsecurity.gov

»Read more at the Office of Inspector General website