Senior Forum’s September/October issue will be snail-mailed only to persons requesting a printed copy by calling 520-312-8923. If you know of an LGBTQ+ older adult who lacks computer access and would like to receive the newsletter, please help us spread the word by letting them know they can phone us to receive the printed hard copy newsletter.
If your home quarantine has kept you from picking up a copy of Tucson Weekly for a while, you don’t want to miss this one: the annual Pride issue. It’s available now in an easy-to-read online format.
For over 30 years, Lambda Literary has championed LGBTQ books and authors. No other organization in the world serves LGBTQ writers and readers more comprehensively than Lambda Literary. This year their annual Litfest is “In Celebration and Defense of Black LGBTQ Lives.”
» See the Litfest Website for more
Senior Pride Executive Director Lavina Tomer reflects on the passing of the renowned and beloved Supreme Court Justice.
Ruth Bader Ginsburg means so much to me as a feminist. She brought discrimination toward women to the forefront for Supreme Court justices. Her brilliant arguments furthered women’s rights then, now and will for future generations of girls and women. Her commitment to LGBT rights and human rights was in line with her understanding and dedication to justice. She is one of my heroes.
When COVID first struck, Researchers Sally Dodds and Beth Meyerson quickly recognized unique threats the corona virus holds for our LGBTQI+ community. They sprang into action early in the pandemic to create and administer a survey of COVID risks and impacts for older LGBTQI+ people in Arizona — and now they are ready to share the results directly with you.
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Are you experiencing some surprising benefits to your COVID quarantine alone time? Join the Senior Pride Book Club and author Fenton Johnson as they explore the role of solitude in the lives of a dozen iconic “solitaries.” Henry David Thoreau, Emily Dickinson, and Zora Neale Hurston all used their solitary tendencies and alone time to create — what can we learn from them today?
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Youngest ever mayor of Tempe, Neil Guiliano, will be honored on Oct. 7 at a virtual event, free to the public, organized by One Community, Arizona’s statewide coalition of socially responsible businesses, organizations, and individuals who support diversity, inclusion, and equity. After serving as mayor, Guiliano took the stage as a national LGBTQ activist with the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) and the San Francisco AIDS Foundation.
» Sign up for the event here
Results are in from the COVID survey of LGBTQ older adults held just a few months ago in Arizona. What should you know to protect yourself and the ones you love for the long haul?
Two local doctors, both dedicated volunteers of Senior Pride, have important insights regarding LGBTQ older adults in Pima County that they want to share with you, your friends, and your family.
Join Dr. Beth Meyerson of the Southwest Institute for Research on Women (SIROW) and the Institute for LGBTQ Studies at UA and Dr. Sally Dodds, retired professor of psychiatry and medicine at UA and affiliate faculty of SIROW.
» More information
October 13, 2:00 pm
Senior Pride Speaker Series
LGBT Aging Successfully: 5 takeaways from the AZ COVID survey
National award-winning author, and friend of Senior Pride, Fenton Johnson will join us for next month’s book club meeting where we will discuss his newest book: At the Center of All Beauty: Solitude and the Creative Life.
Fenton is a part-time Tucson resident and University of Arizona, Professor Emeritus. At the Center of All Beauty is described as “a profound meditation on accepting, and celebrating, one’s solitude” … perhaps the ideal teaching for many of us as we grapple with the extended quarantine of the COVID era.
Don’t miss this opportunity to chat with Fenton and other Senior Pride participants about his latest book!
Wednesday, October 21, 2–3:30 pm via video conferencing, using Zoom. For the Zoom info to join the meeting, contact us or call 520-312-8923.
(author photo: Hannah Ensor)
The Trump Administration has proposed changes to the Affordable Care Act that would invite discrimination against LGBTQ individuals and providers, but Lambda Legal has been granted their request for a preliminary injunction–halting the discrimination rule immediately.
» Read more here
A second federal judge has issued an injunction blocking the Trump administration’s efforts to rescind the Affordable Care Act’s protections against anti-LGBTQ+ discrimination.
» Learn more here
Pima County Public Library’s Rainbow Reads Book Club’s “Book Chat” will meet Sunday, Sept. 20, 1:00pm on Zoom. A two-for-one book club experience with “Book Chats” on odd months and a traditional reading group on even months, this is a great way to discover and discuss LGBTQ+ literature.
Check out a list of Queer Youth Literature selections with Latinx characters to celebrate Latino-American Heritage Month, beginning Sept. 15, 2020.
By Joyce Bolinger, Lavina Tomer and Keith Ashley
Senior Pride is poised for continued growth and program success. Despite the many challenges presented by the COVID health crisis, we wrapped up fiscal year 2019-20 in a position of financial strength with our core programs humming along, newly adapted to their online platforms.
» Read the full article
by Lee Crosby
In June 2020, the Community Cares Program (CCP) participated in a survey being conducted by Pima Council on Aging (PCOA) Neighborhood Care Alliance (NCA). The purpose of the survey was to assess how all recipients within the NCA catchment area were doing and if, relative to our program, the CCP Volunteer visits and calls were helpful.
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For most of her life, Josefina Ahumada knew she was being called to service. Last year, upon retirement from fulltime work at Arizona State University (ASU) Social Work Program, she answered the call to extend beyond social service to offering spiritual guidance when she became a lay pastor for the Presbyterian church on the Tohono O’Odham nation in Sells…
» Read full profile by Bruce Hyland
Legendary trans activist Marsha P. Johnson was honored–on what would have been her 75th birthday–by having a New York state park renamed in her honor.
» Learn more here.
A school-district in Texas reinstated a teacher who had been put on leave after parents complained about the LGBTQ and Black Lives Matter posters on her virtual blackboard.
» Read more.
Danielle Moonstar and Rahne Sinclair are the lesbian power couple at the heart of Marvel’s recently released The New Mutants.
Josh Boone, director of the latest X-Men superhero spinoff, highlighted the film’s same-sex relationship between Rahne Sinclair/Wolfsbane (played by Game of Thrones Maisie Williams) and Danielle Moonstar/Psyche (TV actress Blu Hunt).
» Read more and watch the trailer
Good advice for people who are registered to vote but feel unsafe about voting in person and may be uncertain that the USPS will deliver your “mail-in” ballot to be counted in a timely fashion. Here’s how to request an absentee ballot, find your polling place, vote early and more.
The video recording of last month’s speaker series is now available on YouTube!
Armchair Nature Escapes: Birds & Gardens
presented on August 11, 2020
Keith Ashley, Director of Development, Tucson Audubon Society
Jan Schwartz, docent, Tucson Botanical Gardens and Certified Master Naturalist, Pima County Chapter, Arizona Master Naturalist Association
Have you been following Arizona Spotlight’s 5 part series exploring the landscape of youth and gender identity? NPR Reporter Laura Markowitz talks to teens, parents, and experts on the forefront of understanding the spectrum of human identity.
Instructor Cat Belue asked Senior Pride Writing Workshop participants in June and July to describe “how COVID-19 has impacted and perhaps changed their lives forever.” From reflections on homemade sauerkraut to rekindling family relationships, you can hear the stories read by the authors on YouTube, or read them yourself in an online anthology.
With the addition of the 2020 Icons, LBTQ History Month organizers will have amassed a searchable biographical database of 465 LGBT luminaries—the largest online resource of its kind—available year round. Test your A-to-Z knowledge of LGBT history every Tuesday through September with their emailed photo quiz. Then check LGBTHistoryMonth.com for the answers.
100 years ago, on August 18, 1920, the 19th Amendment was adopted, giving women the right to vote after decades of struggle on the state and federal levels. For many suffragists, scholars have found, the freedom to choose whom and how they loved was tied deeply to the idea of voting rights.
Tucson Pride is going virtual this year; the Southern Arizona Aids Foundation and the LGBTQ Alliance Fund have new CEOs and we’re proud to announce that Keith Ashley is our newest Senior Pride Associate Director.
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The University of Arizona Health Science Center’s Office of Equity, Diversity and Inclusion has issued an update about the impact of COVID on the LGBTQ+ communty. The update includes tips, precautions and resources to help us continue to weather this pandemic.
»Read the full update
Gloria Gaynor, Jefferson Starship and Debbie Allen inspire you to get up and move! Check out these virtual performances by well-known artists from the ’60s and ’70s.
As Ken Felts, 90, worked on a memoir, old memories gave him the push he needed to reveal openly for the first time that he was gay. His Facebook post went viral and was featured on the Today Show.
Watch his inspiring story and see how his message is helping others find the strength to live their truth.
Aging presents challenges for everyone, but they can be particularly acute for transgender and gender-nonconforming older adults. This collection of resources from LGBTQ Nation is curated especially for older trans adults.
Pride is a protest. I read these words today for the first time and my inner-teenager woke up from a long sleep, eyes wide open. He grinned like a pink possum, and delivered a friendly slap-on-the-back to my 53-year-old self: “Told you so. Did you forget?” I had clearly forgotten. »Read article by Keith Ashley
Claire Ellington knew from an early age that the conventional middle-class world didn’t have everything quite right. Growing up a tomboy “from the get go” in 1950s-60s Charlotte, NC, “I recognized right away the world had a problem, but I didn’t have a problem.” Claire’s rebellion against conventional life put her on a fiercely independent path of discovery to root out and dismantle oppression in her own life and help others do the same…
»Read full profile by Ed Kimble
Arizona has moved up from the nation’s 12th lowest infection rate to the nation’s 12th highest in just one month, and Pima County hospitals are running out of ICU beds because of it. Almost 60% of the cases are occurring among persons under 44 years old, but the over 65 crowd accounts for 75% of the deaths in the state. We’ve learned a lot about COVID-19 in the six months since it first appeared in Wuhan, China. The virus is preventable. Just wear a face mask in public, and there’s some folks you probably should avoid.
»Read article by Ed Kimble
“Once we might have been closeted and somewhat invisible. But, as we are seen increasingly as the faces of neighbors, family, friends and co-workers, it is harder than ever to deny our rights.” »Read Joyce Bolinger’s article in the Arizona Daily Star
Joyce Bolinger observed the 50th anniversary of Pride gatherings by looking back over the last five decades of LGBTQI+ life in the Old Pueblo, and she found a LOT to celebrate.
Did you know that Tucson’s gay rights movement began with a murder outside a gay bar, and the outrage it sparked led to political organizing and one of the earliest anti-discrimination ordinances in the U.S.? Did you know that lesbian-feminists played a huge role in building the organizations that have allowed LGBTQI+ people to thrive with pride here? Did you know Tucson’s lesbian and gay chorus has been performing concerts for 32 years? Or that Senior Pride began 16 years ago?
What would summer be without some great books to wile away our vacation hours at the beach, by the pool, or just hiding out in our homes to beat the blazing desert heat? And while you’re at it, why not bone up on your LGBTQI+ history or get to know some of the brightest queer literary minds past and present, or maybe some who aren’t themselves part of our tribe but have keen insights into our stories? Senior Pride’s Book Club coordinator, Les Tannenbaum, a retired English professor who retired to Tucson from Ohio, suggests a baker’s dozen great finds for your book bag or e-reader.
»Les Tannenbaum’s 2020 Summer Reading List
The Supreme Court ruled Monday that a landmark civil rights law protects gay and transgender workers from workplace discrimination, handing the movement for L.G.B.T. equality a stunning victory.
“An employer who fires an individual merely for being gay or transgender defies the law,” Justice Neil M. Gorsuch wrote for the majority in the 6-to-3 ruling.
Until Monday’s decision, it was legal in more than half the states to fire workers for being gay, bisexual or transgender. The vastly consequential decision extended workplace protections to millions of people across the nation, continuing a series of Supreme Court victories for gay rights even after President Trump transformed the court with two appointments.
Larry Kramer — the New York City-based gay playwright and author whose involvement in the Gay Men’s Health Crisis and ACT UP changed the course of the AIDS epidemic — died May 27. He was 84. Photo shows Kramer at an AIDS conference in New York in 1987 (photo credit: Catherine McGann/Getty Images).
By Sarah Bahnson
The world lost a hero. Larry Kramer, co-founder of Gay Men’s Health Crisis and AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power (ACT UP), died at the age of 84. Most known for his provocative tactics as an activist and public health advocate, he changed the relationship between public health institutions and consumers… »Read full article by Sarah Bahnson
Bruce Hyland asked some of Tucson’s treasured queer elders what makes them proud of their LGBTQI+ experience. Among them were an actor, flag dancer, anthropologist, goat herder, stage manager, activist, musician, judge, Harvard dean, health nut, business owner, counselor, and literature professor. We are forever grateful for their contributions to gay rights and the wisdom they gained in the process, which we proudly share with you to Thrive with Pride 2020.
The COVID-19 pandemic almost stopped 50th anniversary Pride celebrations around the world. Then we got creative and adapted the technology we love to the Pride we live. Star-studded New York and Los Angeles Pride celebrations are broadcasting live on local ABC affiliates, San Francisco Pride will stream live on its website, and Global Pride 2020 is hosting a 24-hour online event with live events from 350 cities around the world. Get info and links to these and other virtual pride festivities and gay history exhibitions happening in June.
Lambda Legal wins class action fight on behalf of surviving same-sex spouses denied equal access to survivor’s benefits due to unconstitutional marriage bans. “This is a tremendous victory for many surviving same-sex spouses nationwide who have been locked out of critical benefits because they were unlawfully barred from marriage for most of their relationships,” said Lambda Legal Counsel Peter Renn.”Many same-sex couples were in loving, long-term, and committed relationships for decades – and they shouldn’t be treated as strangers in death simply because they were unable to marry for most of that time…”
A new HRC report released last week showing that LGBTQI+ communities of color have been economically devastated by the pandemic joins a growing list of studies showing disproportionate impacts on queer communities across the spectrum, including threats to the survival of organizations and places vital to our interests.
by Joyce Bolinger
A longtime member and supporter of the LGBTQI+ community, Jo Schneider owns Tucson’s downtown La Cocina, known for its outdoor patio, eclectic cuisine, and live music. When Tucson Mayor Regina Romero closed restaurants March 17 to contain the spread of COVID-19, Jo began serving free food to out-of-work dishwashers, servers, entertainers, and others — “we don’t turn anyone away,” she says.
Since March 22, Jo has served about 80 free meals 3 times a week. She has donated free meals to TIHAN as well. Part of a non-profit Feeding Those who Feed Us, Jo is also a member of Too Soon Arizona, a group of small businesses who plan to delay re-opening for safety concerns.
by Joyce Bolinger
Early this spring, a nightmarish scenario threatened local agencies who
serve people experiencing homelessness: the virus could rampage through shelters, meal lines, and outdoor “camps,” costing many lives and accelerating its spread throughout Tucson. »Meet Beth Carey
By Bruce Hyland
Photo credit: Tomcat Enterprises Photography© James Scott P. Pignatella
Kevin is holing up with his dearly beloved (Richard Wegner) and cooking food and sharing it with a couple other households. They are playing cards, games and working puzzles. He’s anxious, but very grateful to be with his husband through this. »Meet Kevin Maxey
by Bruce Hyland
Photo credit: Joyce Bolinger
Tom sometimes feels impatient, uncertain, nervous, agitated, but always grateful that he’s safe with his husband in their home. He has a sense that life will be changing. One aspect, given his nonprofit expertise, is how the performing arts will change. How will they survive? How will they adapt? He’s pleased to see pollution levels come down dramatically, even with it only being having been a short time when ships, planes, polluting vehicles, etc. made changes that allowed this. »Meet Tom Buchanan
by Bruce Hyland
Photo credit: Daniel Snyder
Brad is a life-long advocate for those who are less advantaged. He is a musician and lawyer retired from the Office of the Pima County Attorney. Today, Brad is pleased to act as attorney with Homicide Survivors. About the COVID-19 pandemic, he says, “We older LGBTQ+ have hard-won training to deal with this. We know how to survive a plague. .. Who else has been through this, but us?”
»Meet Brad Holland
by Bruce Hyland
Photo credit: Joyce Bolinger
Lola is busy with projects and focusing on being happy. She goes out for walks, being mindful on those treks of the beauty around her. “Of course I’ve had bumps in the road and hit boulders in life. But I learned to deal with things. My goal is to be happy. When I hit a dip, I look inside myself to see what’s really going on. It’s very important for us to know ourselves…” »Meet Lola Lai Jong
In the seven weeks since the World Health Organization (WH0) declared the COVID-19 outbreak a global pandemic on March 11, few things have been more impressive than the outpouring of caring resources to help us cope with its consequences. Since SoAZ Senior Pride published its first roundup of resources especially targeted to LGBTQ+ elders on March 26, many new resources have come online every day.
Today’s COVID-19 Update covers some of the newest local resources that have become available to help with the devastating economic impacts from business shutdowns designed to prevent the spread of this deadly new virus.
The COVID-19 crisis in the United States has upset the lives of everyone, and may especially challenge those in Arizona who are LGBTQ and ages 55 years and older. We invite you to share your experiences through this brief online survey of 52 questions about COVID-19 knowledge, attitudes, protective behaviors, and how the March 30th governor’s order to stay home affects your mental and physical health. The survey study is conducted by Dr. Beth Meyerson of the Southwest Institute for Research on Women (SIROW) and the Institute for LGBTQ Studies at the University of Arizona. Survey results will be shared with organizations serving LGBTQ communities in Arizona.The survey requires about 20 minutes to complete. Your answers will be anonymous. »MORE
Looking forward to getting out of the house again when COVID-19 stay-at-home orders are lifted? If you’re over 60, don’t get your hopes up just yet. The phased in reopening of workplaces and businesses touted by politicos includes a nasty little bombshell for seniors: we must continue “sheltering in place” for a minimum of 28 additional days! Same goes for anyone else vulnerable to COVID-19 complications due to specific medical conditions. Social isolation is the number one predictor of loneliness, and loneliness contributes to a litany of health problems, including a 45% increase in premature death.
“The constant emphasis on ‘death tolls’ and poorly understood data is exaggerating the risks, resulting in a constant state of duress. This type of exposure can be a tipping point for many who are already at risk of suicide and drug overdose.” – Mark Person
Are you being very smart and staying clear of others to avoid COVID-19 — but self-isolation is wearing thin and you miss connection with others? Senior Pride is introducing a new service we’re calling Connect Now! to offer folks short-term support via phone. For more info, call us at 520-312-8923 or send a message.
With great sadness, the GroundSpark team acknowledges the loss of the lesbian activist, Phyllis Lyon. In her 95 years, Phyllis lived a life of love and courage. As we mourn the loss of Phyllis, we also wish to highlight the incredible contributions she made so that we may all be inspired to live courageously, love deeply, and work together for a revolution. We are offering free streaming of One Wedding and…a Revolution (Debra Chasnoff and Kate Stilley, 2004, 19mins) in honor of Phyllis. Use the password RestInPower (note the capital letters!) to watch the film here.
Fearless lesbian activist icon Phyllis Lyon died peacefully at her home in San Francisco on April 9 of natural causes. She was 95. Few individuals contributed more to issues impacting LGBTQ, women’s, civil rights and the rights of elder Americans than Ms. Lyon and her partner of 58 years, Del Martin. Lyon and Martin were the first same-sex couple to marry in California on June 16, 2008. Weeks later, on August 27, 2008, Ms. Martin died in San Francisco, with Ms. Lyon at her side. Ms. Martin was 87.
Southern Arizona Senior Pride is trying to help home-bound seniors – which means ALL of us right now – find services we need by posting articles and links to Web resources of most importance to LGBTQ elders. But the COVID-19 situation is evolving so fast that the only reasonable chance you have of keeping up is on social media. If you aren’t already on Facebook, you need to sign up right now. Here’s why…
Southern Arizona Senior Pride volunteer Bruce Hyland interviewed Jill Koyama about how she is handling the unprecedented disruption in her professional and personal life caused by the COVID-19 pandemic. »Meet Jill Koyama
Researchers at the University of Utah want to gain insight into barriers to care for members of the LGBTQ+ cancer community. If you or a loved one has undergone cancer treatment, or you are or have been a caregiver for an LGBTQ+ cancer patient, we need you! »MORE
Southern Arizona’s LGBTQ seniors represent a vast range of ethnic, linguistic and national identities. During the COVID-19 crisis, many of us need resources in a first language other than English or relevant to our root ethnic identities. In this article, we’ll provide you with links to diverse elder resources.
Federal social-distancing requirements extended to April 30th… $2 trillion stimulus package passed but individuals to wait three weeks for $1,200 checks… Tucson Mayor Regina Romero issues shelter-in place advisory until April 17th… Experts predict 200,000 Americans will die from COVID-19… Federal Reserve predicts unemployment rate will hit 32%…
These dire headlines say nothing about the impact of COVID-19 on the LGBTQ community. Late last week both the Human Rights Campaign and Equality Arizona hosted virtual town halls to look at the unique challenges this pandemic is bringing to our community and marshal resources we can turn to for help.
The isolation that Senior Pride battles so diligently in normal times is suddenly required of everyone. During this crisis, Senior Pride will be publishing COVID-19 UPDATES here in our news feed to help our community navigate this period safely.
It has been two weeks since the World Health Organization declared COVID-19 a worldwide pandemic and a week since Tucson Mayor Regina Romero issued her emergency declaration shutting down all dine-in restaurants, bars, gyms and other gathering spots in the city. Many working older adults have been furloughed or lost their jobs as businesses close, some forever, due to the spread of a coronavirus that is most deadly to the most vulnerable among us. Meanwhile, medical facilities and other services we rely on are asking us to stay away.
We are reaching out to all of you with concern about isolation during this time of crisis. Self quarantine means isolating ourselves from friends, family and social gatherings. Senior Pride wants to offer support and suggestions to interrupt isolation. It is crucial that we take care of our mental health as well as our physical health. Those of us that live alone may need extra love and all of us will need to stay close to our support circles…
Our very own Lavina Tomer joined other unique voices sharing their personal narratives on the themes of Feminism, Intersectionality, Empowerment, Solidarity, Testimonio and Activism at the FIESTA Storytelling event earlier this year at Unscrewed Theater. It was hosted by WOSAC (The Women’s Studies Advocacy Council) to benefit the University of Arizona Department of Gender & Women’s Studies.
»Watch on YouTube
The Arizona Legislature is attacking transgender student athletes. On Thursday, February 20, 2020, the House Health and Human Services Committee voted to advance an egregious anti-transgender bill, HB 2706, out of the AZ House Health & Human Services Committee. While we were incredibly disappointed this invasive, harmful bill was passed through committee, this is not the end and we can stop this bill in the House, but your Representatives need to hear from you! Rush a message to your Representatives and ask them to vote NO on HB 2706!
Tell Your Legislator – STOP HB 2706.
»Contact your legislator on the Human Rights Campaign website
Due to coronavirus precautions, Community Cares volunteers will not be visiting their recipients until it is safe to do so again. But we continue phoning and talking with recipients throughout the crisis.
Are you LGBTQ, 55+, homebound or isolated? Are you disabled of any age? Senior Pride’s Community Cares Program reaches out to people in our community by providing trained volunteers who will visit once a week to play cards, read aloud, write letters or call once a week for a phone visit. Volunteers can also provide information on LGBTQI services and resources. There is no charge for this service. Contact us at 520-351-2724 or email. Referrals are welcome and encouraged!
Be a Community Cares Volunteer!
For info about becoming a trained volunteer call 520-351-2724 or email
The Marist on Cathedral Square, an apartment community for seniors 62+ years old located in the heart of Tucson, is now leasing. BRAND NEW • affordable living • up to 875 square feet • major utilities included • membership to Armory Senior Center • near trolley stop • High-Speed Internet
More info: 602-285-1800 or email
Be on the lookout for telephone impersonation schemes that exploit the Social Security Administration’s (SSA) reputation and authority. Fraudulent callers use threatening language and state that, due to improper or illegal activity with a citizen’s Social Security number or account, a citizen will be arrested or face other legal action or simply experience a suspension of retirement benefits, if the citizen fails to call a provided phone number to address the issue. This is a scam; citizens should not engage with these calls, not call the numbers and not provide any personal information.
The David and Lura Lovell Foundation, a family foundation based in Tucson founded in 1994, has approved a major grant of $25,000 to Senior Pride to join an initiative for end of life planning. Senior Pride is the only LGBTQ+ community organization to become a member of the Arizona End of Life Care Partnership…
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The Wild Geese Foundation has awarded Senior Pride a grant of $5,000 as a major boost to building the organization’s capacity. In our application to the foundation, Senior Pride stated that the objectives are to begin a transition from a grassroots organization to a more formal one that will serve LGBTQ+ older adults for generations and to increase services.
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